In this lesson, Ceema tells you certain points one must keep in mind while giving and receiving compliments.
The key points while a compliment are :
1. Be sincere : Your compliment must be sincere and genuine. A spontaneous compliment is always sincere because you don’t think in advance. It should be positive and full of enthusisam.
2. Be specific : Be specific to make your compliment effective. Avoid generalization.
3. Don’t compare achievements : Compliment a person based on his/her merit. Do not compare them with others.
4. Timely : This involves giving compliments as soon as the achievement is accomplished.
The ke points while receiving a compliment are :
1. Don’t shrug off or disagree : Smile and say thank you when you are complimented. Accept it gracefully.
2. Don’t upscale (increase the value) a compliment : Don’t say you way better than the compliment given to you.
3. Avoid complimenting back immediately : When you are complimented for something, do not compliment the person back. It seems insincere and as though you are reciprocating for the sake of it.
Спасибо большое за все ваши уроки! Вы так старательно всё объясняете, просто здорово! Иногда немного непонятно видео из-за индийского акцента. Но это ничего страшного. Буду продолжать следить за вашими уроками. Всё так подробно и понятно разобрано. Извините, что пишу на русском, просто на английском языке не могу полностью передать, как мне нравится ваш сайт.